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Upscale lifestyle parties for the extremely sexy and open-minded.

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Where wine & conversation break free!

Open to select single men, couples, and single females.

Take a walk on the wild side with women who love multiple men.




A bit XXXtreme!

After a few month hiatus, XXXtreme Events made quite a comeback on Saturday night!  Produced by School of Sex, I was intimately involved in building the guest list for the party... which meant a multitude of hot young studs for the ladies in attendance to choose from.  The XXXtreme party lived up to its name; things got WILD -- which is exactly what you get when you combine insatiable, horny ladies with gorgeous, hung gents.

Everyone came in quite cold from the frigid temperatures outside and it took a little while to warm up.  I moved one of the large, portable heaters into the play area and my girlfriend Sheila made her way over to get things started.  Sheila has extremely large breasts and a slender frame, so she turned heads as she began to strip down.  Rocco and I sat on one bed with my friend Mike, who had an amazing time at the last XXXtreme Event and knew he couldn't miss out on this one!

Sheila noticed that some of the guys were shy.  After all, most of them were very young and a little intimated by the beautiful, confident women walking around the party.   So Sheila advised Rocco to grab a special red siren light to attract everyone's attention into the play area.  Rocco grabbed the light, and a bunch of the boys made their way over...

I was getting very horny watching Sheila, who already hit it off with a guy.  His hand found its way inside her panties, and he began fingering her.  Mike raised my leg and began giving me a very sensual foot massage.  Since Rocco had gotten up, another guy had taken his seat on the other side of me.  I was putty in their hands.  We watched Sheila getting fingered at an ever increasing rate, until the guy's fingers were a blur!  It didn't take long for each boy on either side of me to start getting frisky.  I was wearing a very accessible top, so my boobs were readily accessible and ready to big licked.  I dropped to my knees and began giving Mike head.  His cock was delicious, but I was a little curious about the strapping black guy who was next to me.

He was extremely hung!  I was soaking wet just thinking about how good these dicks would feel inside of me.  Sheila's date had hooked up with a regular at our parties, Mary -- a beautiful, slender blonde with a voracious sexual appetite and a moan that could wake our neighbors out in the Garden State!  He was also a hung African-American guy, and completely ripped.  The three of us girls had started the party...

I took turns sucking each cock until I couldn't take it anymore.  The black guy grabbed a condom and slid his huge cock inside me.  I continued to suck Mike's cock, and then Rocco came over.  He smiled at me as if to say, "Naughty girl..."  I knew he loved it.  He had been distracted for a few minutes, but knew I didn't waste any time to get some quality cock inside me.  Rocco unzipped his pants and I sucked him as well.  It was a sizzling hot scene.  By now, the rest of the guys had congregated over to watch as Sheila, Mary and I were going wild on these boys.

Sheila began to fuck her new friend, whose hand was probably exhausted from the impressive fingering feat he had performed.  A few couples started hooking up next to us.  The huge cock inside me kept going and going, with phenomenal stamina.  I had already cum at least twice, and I wanted to fuck Mike's throbbing cock -- so I told the hung man to try a go with Sheila.  It didn't take long for him to change his condom and enter her soaking wet pussy.  After all, sharing is caring!

I took Mike's cock in the missionary position, and noticed that someone special had arrived and was watching me in the play area.  It was TITAN!  Yes ladies, the winner of my cock of the year competition had come out with his monster cock ready for action.  As more people made their way to the beds, I shifted over to the area where Mary was hooking up with Sheila's date.  She was scared of his big dick, but took it quite well.  Soon, she started sucking Mike's cock and completed her "Eiffel Tower" fantasy of being in the middle of two hot men.

One of my favorite couples, who had partied hard with us on New Years Eve, were also looking for some fun at XXXtreme Events.  Violet is a South American with a body and tan to die for... her husband, Greg, is super-sweet, sexy and debonair.  Rocco introduced them to Titan, but these two fun-seekers didn't need much help in finding hot men for Violet to play with.  The next thing I knew, Violet was being triple teamed.  Greg received a blowjob while his lovely lady got pounded from the back.  I could hear her moans and then ::squirt!!!  Violet must've had an amazing orgasm, because she came all over the bed sheet.  (Of course, we changed the sheet after she was done playing!) 

Rocco and I made our way over to Violet to congratulate her.  To our side, Titan already began hooking up with Sheila, who was in awe of his monster manhood.  I talked to some of Violet's suitors, who were impressively polite and very cute.  One of them was a Latino stud, the other a cute guy-next-door type.  They were extremely friendly, and couldn't stop expressing how much fun they were having.  The Latino stud commented, "I had been seeking this type of party for a long time.  Every party open to single men that I had been to... well, let's just say something wasn't right about them."  The pushy, nasty men; the hookers; I knew exactly what he was talking about.  XXXtreme represents a shining star in the skeevy world of "gangbang" parties.  XXXtreme Events are for real, horny women who want their pick of handsome, pre-screened gentlemen.

Rocco and I were horny, having just seen Violet take on a group of men.  Rocco slid his cock inside me right then and there, and began fucking me.  Rocco still hadn't cum yet, so I was determined to do something really hot to send him over the edge.  I grabbed the Latino guy and invited him to the far bed.  He followed, and laid down on the bed.  His cock was already rock hard, so I took turns sucking his cock and Rocco's.  I put a condom on my new Latin lover, and slid down his cock.  It felt so good.  Rocco got up on the bed, and I continued to suck his cock.  We switched it up, and Rocco took me from behind.  He build up speed and watched as I gave Mr. Latino a wet, sloppy blowjob.  Unable to take it any longer, Rocco fucked me as hard as he could and let out a roar!  He was cumming... all over my ass.  I smiled, but wasted no time in getting in the missionary position and getting fucked by my new friend.

To our side, two beautiful lesbians were going at it.  They had attended the party because they were curious about getting involved with some guys, and had been entertaining an audience of men since they had arrived.  They had been going at it for hours!

XXXtreme will be back soon!  We have already started getting even more applications flying in for our next event, which will be announced soon.

New Years Eve ... Behind Closed Doors

While hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers piled into Times Square to watch the ball drop in the bitter cold, a much hotter (both figuratively and literally) party was going on in midtown Manhattan.  And, yes, it was Behind Closed Doors!

As popular as ever, Swing School started off the night.  Through the informal discussion, we helped introduce the lifestyle to the gorgeous couples who were excited to learn more.  "I went to a swing party just the other week...  everyone just sat around like an awkward high school dance," a sexy 20-something commented.  She was excited to see that everyone present at the BCD party was attractive, open-minded, and friendly.  You could really feel the intense, positive energy in the air.

Thanks to Adam & Eve, sex toys were given away to every female guest.  Most of the ladies immediately busted open the package to check out their new friend.  Jack-rabbits, glass dildos, and even Magic Wands were among the premium toys I handed to each sexy lady.  And then, of course, I unleashed the Sybian.  About a dozen girls experienced the most intense orgasm of their lives on the king of all vibrators.  My friend Desiree, who has become a regular at BCD events, came hard on the machine and told me that she wanted to start off the new year with a cock in her mouth.  No wonder I think the world of her, that had to be the hottest thing I heard all night!!!

I recognized a gorgeous Russian beauty that I had spoke with on the phone mere hours earlier.  "Ivanka" was blonde and busty, with a face more gentle and beautiful than a porcelain doll's.  And then she introduced her boyfriend, "Ramone."  As many of you know, I'm a huge fan of BangBros, the producers of Monsters of Cock.  One of the stars of that web site is the extremely hung Ramone.  Ivanka's boyfriend looked like a hotter version my favorite of Monster of Cock, hence his nickname.  Would he be just as hung?

I was unsure of whether Ivanka and Ramone would do anything more than watch.  It was their first time at an erotic event, and they looked rather innocent.  Ivanka indicated on the phone that they just wanted to check out the event and see what it was like.  I was a bit harsh with her on the phone, since they were a last minute reservation and we really didn't have any room left.  "Are you sure this is something you're OK with?  It inevitably turns into a full blown orgy,"  I told her. Of course, I made sure to mention that they would never be forced to get involved -- but I wanted to emphasize that it was hardcore.

Well, after I made the champagne toast at midnight and the majority of guests watched the ball dropped (and subsequently kissed, and kissed some more...), I peeked into the play area and guess who had hooked up with 2 other couples?  Ivanka and Ramone!!!  Apparently, the couple hit it off with my friends Desiree and Ron right away.  I smiled as I saw Ramone's big dick enter Desiree.  He was hung!  And, I believe Desiree had a dick in her mouth as the clock struck 12:00!!!

It takes some beginners a few parties just to get comfortable with haveingsex in front of people, let alone swap partners and participate in an orgy.  But because of the comfortable atmosphere and fantastic people at BCD parties, we sometimes jump-start the process.  It's hard to resist sexy couples who want to play -- especially if you've discussed the prospect with your partner and are ready to jump into the water!  And, that's exactly what happened.

More couples entered the play area, while others started to get frisky in the lounge.  The party was wild!  Girls with girls, girls with guys, and girls with toys... we had it all.  Rocco and I were mesmerized by the three-couple orgy on one of the beds, and decided to approach.  On the adjacent bed, another gorgeous woman struck our eye.  She was getting fucked by her husband.  There was plenty of room available on the bed, so I moved in and reached out to her.  She grabbed my hand as she moaned.  Unfortunately, her husband only had about another minute of steam left.  But that's the beauty of a party, lots to choose from ;)  If a guy peters out, it's not an issue.

Eventually, Ivanka was back on top of Ramone.  I wanted to play with them so bad!  She smiled at me, and pointed to a free bed.  "Let's go have some fun!" she exclaimed.  And that's exactly what we did.  Ivanka was extremely vocal and alluring during every second of our encounter.  We quickly traded partners, and things started to get intense.  Ivanka moaned in pleasure while Rocco fucked her.  And I was taken aback by Ramone's moves, he was a fantastic fuck!  All around us, people got laid into the night... 

What a way to start 2010!  I wish each and every one of my readers a happy, healthy, and prosperous year -- and many more to come! 

XXXtreme is back!

XXXtreme Events is back!
After a few month hiatus, we are happy to announce that our next XXXtreme Event will be held on Saturday, January 9 from 9pm-3am in midtown Manhattan.

XXXtreme Events are open to select singles and couples. 
These on-premise parties cater to the discerning female swinger and the fortunate gentlemen who are invited to attend.  Courtesy and a respectful attitude towards every female in attendance is a requirement of every male attending.  Since our events are female-run and all guests are screened, the dynamic is very different from any other swingers party open to single men.

Our events are held in very clean, upscale locations and provide all the amenities that you would find in an upscale night club. The party location and password are only given out to those who are approved for membership and pay the required online donation - $120/single male, $60/couple, $20/single female. 

Come out and experience the difference of an event catering to women who enjoy attractive, classy, respectful men who know how to please!

Interested in attending the wildest event in the city?

The Dilution of the Term "Swinger"

I've noticed a trend over the past few years.  It's cool to be a swinger again.  Perhaps we have reason to thank the surge of off-premise parties for this resurgence, or maybe people are really becoming more sexually liberated in this country.  After all, in 2007 there was even a prime time television show on CBS entitled "Swing Town."

But what is a swinger?  It is someone who is sexually curious, like a woman who wants to experience another female?  How about couples who go to off-premise parties to dance half-naked and take dozens of pictures to show how wild and cool they are?  I would argue that none of those people are swingers.  Swingers are people who have sexual encounters with numerous people who they are not in a relationship with.  But does oral still count as a sexual encounter?  According to President Clinton, it wouldn't... but who was he kidding?  On that note, I should also say that cheating is never swinging -- swingers are open with their partners about the sexual activities they engage in and, most commonly, participate in those activities together.

So, yes, those who swap partners, or have multiple sexual partners, would be considered swingers even if it was just oral sex.  However, oral sex swappers would likely be considered "soft swap" whereas those who swap with full sexual intercourse would be considered "full swap."

Lately, a slew of parties, sites, and people have been diluting the term "swinger."  The vast majority of the guests of these parties, members of these websites, and so called next generation of "swingers" have no intention of participating in any kind of sexual activity -- they just want to be in a sexy environment.  For real swingers, this can be extremely frustrating.  Imagine going to a party where girls are making out, rubbing on guys, and acting very flirtatious -- and then, nothing.  Zero chance of anything happening at the event because it's off-premise and sexual activity is forbidden.  Often, even nudity is forbidden and Pastease are distributed out of necessity.  You approach that hot couple and ask if they'd like to come back to your place.  They look at you, puzzled, and say, "Nah, we're good, we're just going to have some more drinks and talk to our friends."

If that's anything like "blue balls," I feel bad for you guys.  I've been in situations where gorgeous women seduced me on the dance floor and got me soaking wet and horny, only to find out that these women are not full-swappers, soft-swappers, or swingers at all.  It's worse than being teased at a strip club, because at a "swinger party" there is supposed to be the possibility of getting laid, or finding suitable partners.

At a Behind Closed Doors party, by contrast, you will find that most people are indeed either soft or full swappers.  But we always have a sizable number of exhibitionists, voyeurs, and the mere curious to my parties as well.  After all, swinging is not for everyone, and our parties aren't just a massive orgy (although they usually end up that way).

Swinging is hardcore.  Those with financial interests in certain parties and websites exploit the term because sex sells.  Teasing people with the prospect of a sexy "swing" party and selling them drinks can be quite lucrative.  But, on a sexual level, you're not getting jack; it's really bullshit.  What we need is a universal sign, greeting, or piece of jewelry for swingers so that we don't get sucked in by vanilla fakers.. or you can just stick with me and School of Sex -- we'll never steer you wrong.