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Upscale lifestyle parties for the extremely sexy and open-minded.

Ladies only.

Where wine & conversation break free!

Open to select single men, couples, and single females.

Take a walk on the wild side with women who love multiple men.

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January's Wall of Shamer Duo

I found a few candidates for January's Wall of Shame during my trip to Hedonism II in Jamaica.  But one particular couple stuck out more than anyone else, the "snitchers."

Rocco and I had met a nice older couple on the third day of our week long getaway at Hedo.  We hooked up that evening and had agreed to go on the sexy boat cruise the following morning.  As we were geting ready to board the nude booze cruise, the husband of the couple was not feeling well at all.  He told his wife to go with us -- and told us to take care of her.  The night before, he had told us that he was open to "anything she wanted" including playing without him.  It was actually his fantasy to hear about his wife getting naughty without him.  As he headed back to his room to get some rest, he made us promise to take good care of her.

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XXXtreme Porn Star Party Review

As you may have noticed, there have been a lot more parties in the past two months than ever before.  Besides Behind Closed Doors, which is our flagship event aimed at young, very attractive couples and single women, we are holding XXXtreme Events on a monthly basis, which are open to phoca_thumb_l__MG_0142aselect single men as well as couples and single women, and just launched More to Love catering to voluptuous women and the men who love them.  Even more specialty events are coming within the next two months.

Karen Kougar, one of my favorite porn stars, has been hosting Behind Closed Doors events since last year.  She has even helped as a co-instructor for Swing School and has done a fantastic job.  Everyone loves Karen because she is super sweet and oh-so-sexy!!  But Karen Kougar wanted to host a party that was a bit more extreme.  She confessed her love of young men and beautiful cock-meat, so I suggested a logical solution -- host an XXXtreme Event!!
Excited by the prospect of hosting an event catering to women who want multiple men, Karen quickly agreed and even called some of her porn star friends.  We had something for everyone at the event, and stars Brandon Longwood, Hotwife Kay, Freaky and others came out to the event.

And what did these stars have in common with me, and the rest of our guests?  We're all swingers who love to fuck!  I love providing a sensual playground for sexy women to enjoy themselves and have their pick of the litter of the attractive, courteous single men I invite.  After all, as I am a genuine woman in the Lifestyle throwing parties, so I know what women want.  So what did the women at XXXtreme and the fortunate men who were invited experience?  As one of my newly-found friends whom I met at the More to Love party put it -- the women attending can experience anything and everything their hearts desire.  That particular voluptuous woman, Kim, loves to have sex with men.  She came up to me and said, "Thank you so much for providing this type of party, it's about time someone did a hardcore event that catered to women.  After all, I do enjoy playing next to women and don't mind if they go down on me, but at the end of the night, I need some cock."  And cock is exactly what she got!

XXXtreme Porn Star Party - February 20th

As you may have noticed, there have been a lot more parties in the past two months than ever before.  Besides Behind Closed Doors, which is our flagship event aimed at young, very attractive couples and single women, we are holding XXXtreme Events on a monthly basis, which are open to select single men as well as couples and single women.

Karen Kougar, one of my favorite porn stars, has been hosting Behind Closed Doors events since last year.  She has even helped as a co-instructor for Swing School and has done a fantastic job.  Everyone loves Karen because she is super sweet and oh-so-sexy!!  But Karen Kougar wanted to host a party that was a bit more extreme.  She confessed her love of young men and beautiful cock-meat, so I suggested a logical solution -- host an XXXtreme Event!!

Excited by the prospect of hosting an event catering to women who want multiple men, Karen quickly agreed and even called some of her porn star friends.  So, we now have something for the ladies -- Brandon Longwood and his foot long dick will be attending our XXXtreme Porn Star Party on February 20th.  There are even more surprise guests in store -- it's going to be a wild night!!!

The beautiful thing about XXXtreme Events is that, unlike any other party open to single males in the city, we don't let just anyone in.  Similar to BCD, all guests are screened.  That means that there are no trolls -- all guests are attractive, both men and women.

Our Porn Star Party is going to be a blast, as we have only invited porn stars who are also swingers.  This is a recipe for some wild times.  Despite the fact that these stars love to be on camera, no cameras will be permitted in the play areas since XXXtreme Events are also discreet events!

I'll be looking forward to getting plenty of action on the 20th, especially taking Brandon's big black dick inside me.  Don't worry ladies, I know how to share.  You don't want to miss this one!!!

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Curvy Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

I wanted to create a party where women of all shapes and sizes, especially those who are very voluptuous, would feel comfortable.  So I launched "More to Love".  Our very first event kicked off--well, during the Superbowl kick-off.  At about half-time, the ladies and I decided to cheer on the New Orleans Saints in our own special way.  Rocco and I made our way over to the play area and started getting frisky.  Our new friends joined us.  A handsome gentleman whom I shall call "Jeremy" laid adjacent to us on a bed.  I walked over to him and smiled as I flirtatiously told him that he was overdressed.  I helped him strip his clothes off.  Jeremy had been a perfect gentleman all night and he was very outgoing.  I was excited to have an opportunity to play with him, as he intrigued me both physically and mentally.  

As I took off Jeremy's shirt I noticed that he was more built than I expected.  He sat on the bed with his black boxers and dirty thoughts ran through my mind as I looked at sexy body.  "Is he hard?" I thought to myself.  I took my eyes off his muscles for a moment and peeked down to his underwear.  I smiled at him and he smiled back in an inviting way.  Well, there was only one way to find out if Jeremy was ready to have some fun.  I took my hands and slid them on top of his very erect penis.  I unleashed his cock and started to play.  I looked over and saw Rocco playing with a sexy, curvy lady with amazing natural breasts.  Jeremy and I went over and started playing next to them.  After all, the more the merrier. 

As you readers may know, I love being fucked good, hard and fast.  However, sometimes (but not often) I do like to take things slow.  Jeremy must have practiced his tantric sex technique because he slowly built me up and then brought me to pure ecstasy.  We started out playing gently with each other and I could tell right away that Jeremy was a good lover.  He was attentive, courteous and selfless.  I was having a lot of fun with him as he teased me.  He went down on me and made my toes curl.  What was Rocco doing?  He was having fun with the amazing natural boobs lady on our new Liberator sex furniture.  I heard the moaning and screaming, but I was too absorbed in my fun to pay attention to anything else.  Every time I felt as if I was about to cum, Jeremy would hold back on me.  I squeezed his hand as I would get closer and closer while he was pleasuring me.  My pussy was soaked and practically begging for cock.  I couldn't take it any longer so I straddled Jeremy's cock and he pushed his long cock deep inside me.  A few pumps later, I was really wet with excitement.  I felt an exploding orgasm and continued to ride his cock.  Good thing I'm not a guy or I might considered be a "minute man."

I took a break from the fun and noticed another shy, curvy lady, who had told me she was a sex-party virgin, having some fun with a tall Italian gentleman.  She broke out of her shell and felt comfortable enough to explore her wildest fantasies -- which started with her stripping down to her bra and panties.  Her Italian stallion had seduced her and brought her over to a bed.  I could tell she loved the attention.

The Italian got things even steamier as he began to fuck her.  He was doing this sexy lady very well -- the two of them looked hot.  After fucking for awhile, she was ready for a break and made her way over to me and Jeremy.  She wanted me to show her how to deep-throat a cock, so I gave her a private, erotic tutorial.  She tested out her skill on the lucky volunteer--Jeremy.  Indeed, this was a larger-than-average cock and it would take a lot of skill to deep throat this bad boy.  But the sex-party virgin gave it her all and did a great job.  I helped her out a little and licked the bottom of Jeremy's cock while she sucked the head.  We made a great team! 

I walked over and started talking to a Parisian hunk.  This gentleman redefines the term "chivalrous."  I do love the French gentlemen, but this man was truly the creme-de-la-creme.  The virgin and I took our Parisian friend, who is a big fan of the Swing in the City blog, and sandwiched him between us.  He was a bit shy at first but totally came out of his shell.  The virgin and I simultaneously gave him a kiss on the cheek.  He was pressed between two lips and two pairs of boobies.  What more could a man ask for?

Someone shouted out, "the Saints Won!"  No one was keeping score--well, not the game's score anyways.  I couldn't think of a better way to spend Superbowl Sunday than at the More to Love sex party!   The sexy ladies attending had such a wonderful time at NYC's only on-premise party catering to voluptuous ladies.  The women told me that they felt so comfortable and were so happy with the guys who attended, it was really empowering for them.  We hope to see even more sexy curvy women and handsome gentlemen at our next event.

The cure to the common case of self-consciousness

The lifestyle is about not only be open with sexuality but being open minded.  At any given club or party, you (or your partner) may not be into everyone in attendance.  Swingers may be selective, which means that preferences are key.  Some people are into voluptuous women while others prefer a very fit figure, for instance.  Others may have a preference for blonds or brunettes.  That's natural and perfectly normal.

Most women, and many men, are extremely self-conscious about their bodies.  Fear of getting naked, and consequently being judged by others, may be one of the single most popular reasons that people avoid swinger parties.  It's true; it can be extremely daunting to undress or perform in front of a crowd -- especially when most of the other guests look like models!  That situation holds actually true at very few parties (since most parties do not actually screen their guests, resulting in a large amount of extremely unattractive people).  But at a Behind Closed Doors party, for instance, a girl with curves may be extremely intimidated by the other female guests.

I recognize this problem and have found a way to address it, with the launch of MORE TO LOVE.  It's about time that a party catered specifically to voluptuous women and the men (and women) who adore them.  I, for one, am thrilled about seeing some sexy curves at our launch party.
More to Love is open to select single men as well as couples and single women.  So, ladies, if you're self-conscious and have been avoiding coming out to a party -- this event is for you!  I will make sure you'll have an incredible time.

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